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다시보기로 봤는데 애게더에가 글 작성하라고 해서 아무거나 적습니다.

옛날에 인상깊게 봤던 이상형 찾기 동영상 여기다 삽입할께요. 아래는 제 생각을 편안한 영어로 썼는데 저거는 번역기로 해도 절되로 제대로 번역이 안될거에요. 뭐 애디님한테는 쓸때없지만 그냥 제가 글쓰는거 좋아하니까 글을 써봤습니다. 

This video portrays cultural (not just specific to Korea) norm dating, or an attempt in finding an "idealistic" mate based on one's sole preference. Such attempt is a commonplace in today's society. I think it's very important to have a baseline preferences in finding the ideal mate. Conversely, I think that it is also as important to take a look from the omniscient point of view and realize that the mate with such plethora of variances of YOUR specific preferences (i.e. "ideal" mate) is very improbable--analogous to a winning a lottery ticket. In finding the appropriate mate, one must understand that people are people in the end--just like you and I, filled with flawed characteristics as well as the successes. I believe that people should be true to themselves and not hold themselves to believe in such unrealistic expectations. Instead, allow Socratic understanding of other human beings, including their personality, likes and dislikes, name of their dogs, etc and have a thoughtful conversation before quickly presuming his/her "fit" as your bridal status. I believe such meaningful approach to finding a mate is much better than unnecessarily filtering people by, often, meaningless categories.  

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